TUESDAY, MAY 04 2010, 4:37PM

Happy Tuesday, looks like it's another lovely afternoon. Sun is shining, and just like always - the storm always passes! So, in my keeping up with blogging efforts, it's time for my Tuesday post. My faaavorite quote of the week! This weeks choice comes from a lovely little book "He's just not that into you" of which, I will soon start reading. I realize it's time to grow up, and get over what was. Sure, I'm seeing a great guy who likes me for me - but the truth is, I'm still hung up on my ex. Sigh, I'm such a girl! Anyways, in light of that - here's this weeks quote :)

"Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply missable. However, he's still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he's choosing, every day, not to be with you."

- He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

And that's the cold, hard truth. I know it's one of those hard things to think about, but in all honesty, yes - he decided not to be with you. So, if you're like me, and hung up, here's what you need to know: If he made the decision, there was a reason. There's no use in chasing him, especially if you're the one making all the effort. If he wants to see you, he will. If he wants to talk to you, he will. If what he wants is you to disappear from his life, you will. And he won't make any effort until he realizes what he's missing. And that's when you'll get him back. Maybe never in the same way, but if you're like me - and all you want is to be friends again, then that will bring you happiness. Just let him miss you.

Hope you have a happy Tuesday. I'm off to work, where I will have a wonderful man visit me, the one who wants to be in my life :) and tomorrow off to Toronto for some shopping! Things are looking up all the time. Always remember to smile!